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Employ Your Natural Talents!

Posted on Apr 5th, 2009 by Terrill : Spirit of butterfly Terrill

Vision Practice Retreat

Theme – Employ Your Natural Talents

Natural Talents Vision Practice Retreat

 

Come to eco-friendly La Casa de Inspiracion on Mayne Island for a day retreat focused on the personal resources we bring to our leadership excellence. One aspect of leadership excellence is to recognize and engage our natural talents. Quality of Life Specialist Sherrilene Collymore from Barbados is joining Terrill Welch to facilitate a vision practice retreat that will further clarify your vision, connect you with your ‘natural resources’ and leave you with the gratitude, attitude and fortitude for success.

When:             Saturday, April 25, 2009 from 11:00 pm to 4:30 pm

Timing is flexible to accommodate ferry travel between Victoria, Pender, Vancouver, or Galiano and Mayne Island. You can also stay over at one of our many B&B or resort accommodations. There is also an excellent new video about the island. Go to www.mayneislandchamber.ca

Where:            426 Luff Rd. (off the top end of Bowsprite Cres.),

     Mayne Island, BC, Canada

To Register:   Participants must register in advance no later than Friday, April 17, 2009 by calling Terrill at 250-539-5877 or emailing tawelch@shaw.ca   Space is limited to 10 participants.

Cost:               The vision practice retreat fee is offered through a unique By-Donation approach and is payable by cheque or cash at the time of the event. A light lunch is included.

Sherrilene Collymore is a social entrepreneur, and Founder of the Human Quality Headquarters, or hq2, an innovative human capital development firm based in Barbados. The company's philosophy is built on optimizing the potential in people for sustainable development. To learn more about her work go to www.hq-2.com

Terrill Welch is women’s leadership coach, consultant, visionary author, facilitator and speaker. To learn more about her work and unique By-Donation approach go to Terrill Welch – A Woman behind Women at www.awomanbehindwomen.ca.

warm regards

Terrill & Sherrilene

Terrill Welch
Executive Leadership Coach
 
Ambassador World Leadership Day Canada
March 20, 2009 http://worldleadershipdaycanada.ning.com
 
Terrill Welch - A Woman behind Women
http://www.awomanbehindwomen.ca   and http://terrill.gaia.com
 
Mayne Island B.C. 1-250-539-5877
email: tawelch@shaw.ca
 
"I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as 'making a life'." Maya Angelou
 

© 2009 Terrill Welch, All rights reserved.

 

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How Will We Love?

Posted on Apr 11th, 2009 by Terrill : Spirit of butterfly Terrill
How Will We Love?


An amazing film by Chris Brickler about love that includes inspiring interviews - some of those are with his grandparents who have been married for 65 years. A feature film exploring love, relationships and the changing landscape of commitment.

It is worth the one hour and sixteen and a half minutes it will take to watch.

be inspired,

Terrill
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Who is International Facilitator Sherrilene M. Collymore?

Posted on Apr 13th, 2009 by Terrill : Spirit of butterfly Terrill

I am sure you have detected my enthusiasm to be co-facilitating with Sherrilene Collymore at the next vision practice retreat “Employ Your Natural Talents.” We will be exploring how we have everything we need right now to begin acting on our visions. There is no course we still need to take, no age we need to reach or financial wealth we need to gain. There is nothing we need to be waiting for.

But this is only partly why I am so excited about hosting Sherrilene here in Canada. Sherrilene exudes passion and joy for human capacity. She delights in getting to know people and believes in their innate goodness. People simply feel good in her presence.

To get to know Sherrilene better I have asked her some questions for you. The following is our exchange:

How old are you Sherrilene?

I'm a proud 37! Most people can't tell my real age and I often hear that I must be much younger. I take it as a compliment in fact.

(I was one of these people)

What motivated you into becoming a social entrepreneur?


In 2002 I had a pretty crashing epiphany that I wasn't going to see any changes in the way people were generally perceived and treated in the workplace using a traditional capitalist modeling. I had been a Human Resource professional for some time and achieving good success, but registered that the profession often stopped at the place where HR didn't want to upset the management. As a consequence there were no advocates for true development in the field of People at Work.

I felt with my success with working with people in workplace settings of all sorts, I might be able to bring these achievements to the public in practical fashions, that would help create far more effective enterprises with the potential to be satisfying to management and lower-level staff alike.


What woman leader has been your greatest mentor?


Mother Teresa, most definitely. There's something about her selflessness and her dedication to giving without consideration to dollar cost that's incredible to me. And obviously to observe the returns over time: the dedication and buy-in from countless others, to actually have a million dollar entity as her legacy; it's pretty impressive! I think she also showed me the value that is resident in a giving heart and lent evidence to the unlimited reserve of giving in any of us!

On a smaller scale, there was of course my grandmother Rita Eversley, who I can't forget to mention at any turn.

What is the biggest challenge you have faced and how did you overcome it?


Perhaps unbelievably, one of the biggest challenges I have faced is that of accepting myself and who I am quite naturally. I still have my moments, mind you, but I do remind myself often that 'God doesn't make mistakes', so I must be ok!

I'll elaborate a bit. My family is very grass roots; indeed nearly my entire home circle is very simple and grounded. So my academic and professional achievements, especially internationally, are far out of line from the expectations of someone of my background. It truly doesn't make logical sense that I should 'think' this big and live so fearlessly. So I have had to 'deal with' this since I was a youth and it has been really hard. I've had to walk away from family and societal expectations to feel happy with myself.

Thank goodness, this turned out to be the best thing I could do for everyone concerned.

What do you notice most about working in different parts of the world?

I notice that people desire to feel appreciated, recognized for themselves. This truly is universal.

What is the greatest gift you feel you have to offer others?

Compassion; sensitivity to the human cause which I consider to be the one least addressed in society... the cause which promotes people just being natural and true to themselves.

If you could say one thing to women wanting to enhance their leadership what would it be?

Trust yourself; women have been successfully carrying what I have termed the 'dual load' for a long time now and have both the know-how and the intestinal fortitude - the guts - to take decisions that will be holistic and communally beneficial. We do know best...! [I believe that most reasonable men would concur on this...]

What in the world do you feel most urgently needs to be addressed?


I would like to raise the subject of the next generation and the need to zero-in on their needs as a matter of urgency, and especially to focus on the children without parents that are often forgotten, but who are no less relevant as humans. My parents were not there for me and I am so thankful to have had a grandmother who put the children's wellbeing as paramount, and so my youth turned out almost seamless. This commitment has contributed significantly to my development and, really, to who I am as an individual today. It is something that I therefore raise really high for awareness and appreciation.

(In honour of Sherrilene’s request a donation from the retreat will be made to a family where children live with their grandmother – a woman who is a leader in many aspects of her life and community.)  

Thank you Sherrilene!

Are you inspired? Enthused? Come join us Saturday, April 25th from 11:00 am to 4:30 pm at La Casa de Inspiracion on Mayne Island!

For full details about the vision practice retreat “Employ Your Natural Talents.” go to

http://terrill.gaia.com/blog/2009/4/employ_your_natural_talents

Participants must register in advance no later than this Friday, April 17, 2009 by calling Terrill at 250-539-5877 or emailing tawelch@shaw.ca   Space is limited to 10 participants.

Sherrilene M. Collymore is a native of Barbados who has travelled extensively and has a passion for people and their potential. A very natural “connector”, Sherrilene has optimized her skills with people to serve in a large number of capacities, bringing people with diverse interests into the same place. She now specializes in facilitation as a profession, bridging cultural and other societal gaps with her work. She concentrates on promoting social business and enhancing Quality of Life for persons at the individual and at the group level. Sherrilene is also the Ambassador for World Leadership Day – Barbados. You can learn more about Sherrilene’s academic background and experience at http://www.hq-2.com/smcbio2009.htm (which also includes a photo of her beautiful smiling face).

Hope you can join us! And if you are unable to physically be here, you can join us in spirit, and celebrate the perfectness of being who we are right now in this moment.

Warm regards,

Terrill Welch
Executive Leadership Coach

Ambassador World Leadership Day Canada
March 20, 2009 http://worldleadershipdaycanada.ning.com

Terrill Welch - A Woman behind Women
http://www.awomanbehindwomen.ca   and http://terrill.gaia.com

Mayne Island B.C. 1-250-539-5877
email: tawelch@shaw.ca

"I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as 'making a life'." Maya Angelou

© 2009 Terrill Welch, All rights reserved.

You are welcome to use and share material from this Blog in whole or in part, as long as you include complete attribution, including live web site link and email link. Please also notify me where the material will appear.

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Japanese Garden Mayne Island

Posted on Apr 16th, 2009 by Terrill : Spirit of butterfly Terrill
Your Blooming Success


Last evening I went to the Japanese Garden here on Mayne Island and was reminded of my seven part series to enhance your leadership called Your Blooming Success! (when you click on the link it will start with part seven - just scroll down and you will find that it is nicely in reverse order) This first photo has also been added to my Twelve inspiring photos for 2009 and can be download as a desktop background. (Which means there are now thirteen photos - nothing is as it might seem!)

The garden is full of wonder and mystery. Come with me....

Entrance


With graceful ease we enter the garden.

under the firs


Under the big firs the evening light is low. A crack of a soft ball connecting with a bat in  the near by field mixes with the song birds singing good-night songs.

balance


The garden's structural bones are suspended in its near naked seasonal beginnings.

many plum blossoms


Fragrant clouds of plum blossoms filter our access to blue sky.

Plum Blossoms Japanese Garden Mayne Island


Their scent seems to move the delicate petals in breathless peroettes.

robin with drop of water


A robin tips its head slightly while carefully holding a drop of water.

beauty in simplicity


The beauty of soft green and white shimmers in our imagination... wedding dresses, nightgowns, sheets, a pillow case?

bamboo


Bamboo hides many secrets...

mystery


hidden window


meditation seat


I invite you to sit for awhile.

longing


All too soon it is time to put a donation in the donation box and say a little thank you to all of the volunteers who care for this magical Japanese Garden.

Warm regards,

Terrill Welch
Executive Leadership Coach

Ambassador World Leadership Day Canada
March 20, 2009 http://worldleadershipdaycanada.ning.com

Terrill Welch - A Woman behind Women
http://www.awomanbehindwomen.ca   and http://terrill.gaia.com

Mayne Island B.C. 1-250-539-5877
email: tawelch@shaw.ca

"I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as 'making a life'." Maya Angelou

© 2009 Terrill Welch, All rights reserved.

You are welcome to use and share material from this Blog in whole or in part, as long as you include complete attribution, including live web site link and email link. Please also notify me where the material will appear.

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Susan Boyle living her vision - biggest wake-up call ever!

Posted on Apr 16th, 2009 by Terrill : Spirit of butterfly Terrill

(Lyrics Included) Susan Boyle British idol Britains Got Talent


47 Year old Susan Boyle wows the judges with her performance in the auditions for Britains Got Talent, singing I dreamed a dream from Les Miserables.

What is so amazing about this performance is that everyone - I mean everyone - is shaken up out of their slumber through life and fully present to the beauty flowing through Susan's voice.

CBS interviews Susan today in her home for morning TV.

In addition, I like what Dennis Palumbo has to say about "What if Susan Doyle couldn't sing?"

And Herriet Hodgson "
I think Susan Boyle exemplifies hope -- hope for the person who has lost a job, hope for someone who is getting a divorce, hope for caregivers who face daunting tasks, hope for parents with dreams for their children."

UPDATE April 30 2009 A blog by Young Women Misbehavin called "Proving us all wrong" is well worth the read that looks at the gender issues behind Susan Doyle's success

Terrill

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Leadership - Never Underestimate a Boiled Raisin!

Posted on Apr 18th, 2009 by Terrill : Spirit of butterfly Terrill
Boiled Raisin Cookies


What in your leadership vision is similar to a boiled raisin cookie? Let me explain…

Still in my pajamas, and before washing the breakfast dishes, I am charmed by a boiled raisin - two cups of boiled raisins to be exact. These bloated sweeties will become the key ingredient for cookies that have been requested by a friend to serve after her gourmet dinner tonight.

Spicy boiled raisin cookies are from my grandmother’s kitchen and have come down through the generations. Usually our boiled raisin cookies are requested as “those spicy cookies you make.” People seem to have an aversion to calling them “boiled raisin cookies.” In fact, to say “boiled raisin cookies” will result in the listener pulling a grim face. However, go ahead and mix them up. I will guarantee that before the last batch is out of the oven these cookies will have started to disappear, while new-found worshipers mumble with their mouths full “these are really good!” That is, unless you happen to be serving an individual who doesn’t like raisins in any size, shape or form – in that case, better just  to make them a simple chocolate chip recipe.

Basic Boiled Raisin Cookies

1 cup boiling water

2 cups raisins

1 cup butter

2 cups brown sugar (can reduce to 1.5 and will be fine)

1 tsp. salt

1 ½ teaspoons cinnamon

¼ teaspoon nutmeg

¼ teaspoon allspice

3 large eggs

1 teaspoon vanilla

4 cups flour

1 teaspoon baking powder

1 teaspoon baking soda

Add 1 cup boiling water to 2 cups of raisins (enough water to just cover the raisins). Set aside to cool. Sift together flour, salt, cinnamon, nutmeg, allspice, baking powder, and baking soda. Set aside. In large mixing bowl, cream butter and then mix in sugar. Add eggs, one at a time. Add vanilla then cooled raisin mixture. Add sifted flour mixture and stir with sturdy wooden spoon. Bake at 350 degrees for 10-12 minutes (or lightly brown).

Variations: Add a cup of your favourite chopped nuts. Take out some of the water from the boiled raisins and replace it with thick cream. Double any and all the spices (something I always do – plus I grind whole nutmeg and allspice for best flavour). My daughter uses whole wheat flour instead of white flour, and oil instead of butter, but she also adjusts other ingredients, so if this appeals to you let me know and I will ask her for all of her adaptations.

Warning! This is a monster batch of cookies and you will need a few cookie monsters to do it justice.


monster batch of cookies


My final words of wisdom are – never underestimate the power of a boiled raisin in your leadership. Like Susan Boyle, they will “make that audience rock!”

warm regards,

Terrill Welch
Executive Leadership Coach

Ambassador World Leadership Day Canada
March 20, 2010 http://worldleadershipdaycanada.ning.com

Terrill Welch - A Woman behind Women
web: http://www.awomanbehindwomen.ca
blog: http://terrill.gaia.com
twitter: https://twitter.com/terrillwelch
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email: tawelch@shaw.ca phone: 1-250-539-5877

Remember - a vision not lived remains only a dream.

© 2009 Terrill Welch, All rights reserved.

You are welcome to use and share material from this Blog in whole or in part, as long as you include complete attribution, including live web site link and email link. Please also notify me where the material will appear.

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Leadership Lady's Slippers & White Fawn Lilies

Posted on Apr 21st, 2009 by Terrill : Spirit of butterfly Terrill
drops of rain on white fawn lilies


Not more than six inches high, wild  white fawn lilies look like many small white hats bent over their work.

white fawn lilies


Together on sunny damp slopes they invite us to sit awhile.

first lady slipper


In the shadows deeper into the forest I find my first lady's slipper.

petite lady slipper


Ever so small they are yet such stage presence!

getting close


Some seem so sassy in their delicate striden way.

dancing on its long stem


In your leadership what can the white fawn lily and the lady's slipper teach you?

warm regards,

Terrill Welch
Executive Leadership Coach

Ambassador World Leadership Day Canada
March 20, 2010 http://worldleadershipdaycanada.ning.com

Terrill Welch - A Woman behind Women
web: http://www.awomanbehindwomen.ca
blog: http://terrill.gaia.com
twitter: https://twitter.com/terrillwelch
facebook: Terrill Welch
email: tawelch@shaw.ca phone: 1-250-539-5877

Remember - a vision not lived remains only a dream.

© 2009 Terrill Welch, All rights reserved.

You are welcome to use and share material from this Blog in whole or in part, as long as you include complete attribution, including live web site link and email link. Please also notify me where the material will appear.

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My interview with woman leader Tamara Gagne

Posted on Apr 22nd, 2009 by Terrill : Spirit of butterfly Terrill

Tamara Gagne at Happy Tides Health Food Storephoto by Terrill Wel

 

When I am out and about on Mayne Island – say at the post office or the Sunny Mayne Bakery or the True Value grocery store – I sometimes hear comments about the quality of service in Tamara Gagne and Freddie Steele’s Happy Tides health food store.  For example, I heard a woman talking about Tamara’s constant research: “If you ask Tamara a question and she doesn’t already know the answer, she looks it up in one of her big reference books, and if she is not satisfied with what she finds, she will do further research and then phone or email you with the more information!” Another time a gentleman told me that “Happy Tides is well stocked, but in addition Tamara will try to get things in that I regularly use so I don’t have to go to the city health food store to get them”

 

These are just a couple of the random comments from Happy Tides’ fans. A wealth of satisfied customers voluntarily tell friends and strangers about Mayne Island’s fantastic health food store because they want the store to thrive, and it is their way – an island way – of supporting its success.

 

Having had my own wonderful experiences of excellent and caring service at Happy Tides, I decided to spend some time with Tamara to see if I could get beyond those well-stocked shelves of vitamins, nutritional supplements, herbal and homeopathic remedies and more – more fine health foods and natural products – to find out what is at the heart of the store’s success.

 

Tamara Gagne’s smile is, as always, a welcomed greeting as I enter. Tamara and her husband Freddie Steele’s inspiration and passion for wellness have blossomed into a business that has successfully served local residents, weekenders and visitors since June 2006. Freddie generally works behind the scene shouldering necessary administrative and financial responsibilities, and though he will manage the counter and customer service if necessary, it is usually Tamara who operates the storefront for Happy Tides in the Mayne Mall at Miners Bay. Today is no exception. Tamara is ready to greet her customers with enthusiasm and attentive care.

 

Tamara first became interested in the health benefits of plants through her mother's interest in “wildcrafted” herbs and potions for healing her family and friends and hapless strangers. (Wildcrafting is the practice of harvesting plants from their natural or "wild" habitat, for food, medicinal, or other purposes) Tamara tells me a story about how a police officer once came to her mother’s door inquiring if they knew anything about a neighbourhood disturbance, and her mother noticed a blemish on his face.  She promptly (to Tamara’s self-conscious teenage horror!) slapped some of her green herbal healing salve on his cheek. To Tamara’s immense relief, the police officer kept right on talking as though he did not notice.

 

Tamara confides: “my mom often brought home people that needed a 'hand up.’ We learned compassion and not to judge as we came to understand that any of us could easily find ourselves in a similar situation… I often think that she would be amazed and proud of what I am doing if she was still with us.”  I couldn’t agree more.  Tamara and Freddie have created a place that is unique, a wonderful addition to the community, and the realization of life-long goals and dreams. 

 

In talking further with Tamara I discovered the vision and purpose behind the way she treats her customers.  This attitude towards service is one of the most common characteristics sustaining any store’s success, and here is what she had to say about her intention to provide quality service to each customer who crosses her threshold:

 

I want people to come in and be thrilled with what they discover, and to find the store a relaxing but also inspiring experience. It is satisfying when people come back and tell me that the product that they purchased has worked. I care about what people take and I want to make sure that it is the best product I have for their needs, and that it is compatible with other products or medications they are taking. Besides the benefits of the products, it is important that customers believe in me and that they can trust what I share with them.

 

 

However, there is more to a successful island business than satisfied customers. With small island populations, a business must be part of a community.  One example of this is the way that Happy Tides supports Island happenings. Tamara has her pulse on community events, and frequently has tickets available for purchase (which she sells at cost); also she may pass on information about a fundraiser or other activity coming up that you may be interested in.

 

But there is even more to this store’s success than customer service and community involvement.  A successful island business must, Tamara stresses, “do business in the good island way.” Following my quizzical expression, Tamara explains that the services and products must be unique rather than competitive. Each business must know what other businesses sell, and then choose a different product or even provide a different range of products and services. For example, Happy Tides is the only store on Mayne Island that sells organic Salt Spring Coffee. Yet, the depth of her message really got through and astonished me the day that I came to see Tamara with a long list of supplies I needed for an event I was planning, and she suggested that I may want to buy some of the things I needed from another store. I am sure I must have had a surprised and stunned look on my face because I was about to reach for one of the items in question on one of her shelves – right in front of me! She gently added “that is if you wanted to spread your money around to support more businesses.” Following her example and encouragement, since then I have been conscious of not only buying as much as possible on our island but of “spreading my money around” the community. I now clearly understand that the work for health and wellness cannot be just within each of us as individuals, it must also be within our whole community. I am humbled by Tamara and Freddie’s commitment to Mayne Island’s overall success, and it has drawn me back to Happy Tides again and again.

 

Published in The Islands Independent Friday, April 17, 2009, page 6 "Our Islands: Our People, Happy Tides - Commerce in the Island Way"

Other interviews of women leaders include:

Sherrilene Collymore, Nan Johnston (published in Island Tides) and Joyce Kallweit (published in The Mayneliner)


Tamara Gagne in front of Happy Tides photo by Terrill Welch


Best of health and wellness!

Terrill Welch
Executive Leadership Coach

Ambassador World Leadership Day Canada
March 20, 2010 http://worldleadershipdaycanada.ning.com

Terrill Welch - A Woman behind Women
web: http://www.awomanbehindwomen.ca
blog: http://terrill.gaia.com
twitter: https://twitter.com/terrillwelch
facebook: Terrill Welch
email: tawelch@shaw.ca phone: 1-250-539-5877

Remember - a vision not lived remains only a dream.

© 2009 Terrill Welch, All rights reserved.

You are welcome to use and share material from this Blog in whole or in part, as long as you include complete attribution, including live web site link and email link. Please also notify me where the material will appear.

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